Matrescence Coaching

Matrescence is a term that refers to a woman’s journey and transformation into motherhood. First coined by anthropologist Dana Raphael in the 1970s. It refers to the process of becoming a mother and the psychological, emotional, social, spiritual and physiological changes that come with this monumental transformation. This transition is often marked by a range of experiences, including feelings of joy, excitement, and anticipation, as well as feelings of grief, frustration, fear and sadness. In many ways, the process of Matrescence is akin to other major life transitions, such as adolescence or menopause.

The term “matrescence” is derived from the Latin word “mater,” which means mother, and the suffix “-escence,” which denotes the process of becoming or emerging. Thus, even the word itself speaks to the emergence of a new part of self and that Matrescence is a journey of meeting the mother you are becoming.

The concept of Maiden to Mother energy is deeply rooted in ancient mythology and archetypal psychology. It represents a profound transformational journey experienced by individuals and symbolises the transition from youth and innocence (the Maiden) to maturity, nurturing, and wisdom (the Mother). This archetypal journey is a rich source of inspiration, transformation and understanding for personal growth and empowerment.

The Maiden Archetype: The Maiden archetype is often associated with qualities such as youthful enthusiasm, spontaneity, curiosity, and independence. This phase of life represents a time of self-discovery, adventure, and the pursuit of personal goals and dreams. In mythology, the Maiden is often depicted as a young and vibrant figure, embodying the energy of potential and possibilities.

The Mother Archetype: Conversely, the Mother archetype embodies qualities of nurturing, compassion, wisdom, and care. It represents the phase of life where one takes on responsibilities, cares for others, and becomes a source of support and guidance. The Mother archetype symbolises the culmination of life experience and the capacity to provide love and protection.

The Transition: The journey from Maiden to Mother Energy involves a profound transformation. It is a passage from the carefree days of youth to the responsibilities and joys of adulthood and parenthood. This transition can be physical, emotional, or spiritual and is often marked by significant life events or experiences.

Understanding the Maiden to Mother energy and its archetypal energies can have profound implications for personal development, self-awareness, and relationships. It can help individuals embrace the different phases of life with grace and wisdom, recognising that each phase has its unique gifts and challenges.

I work with women at any stage of their Maiden to Mother Journey. When discussing motherhood, I refer not only to the physical process of becoming a mother but also to the archetypal mother energy inherent within each of us.

Our journey into motherhood is both unique and universal. For some, this entails bringing life into this world, whether directly or through surrogacy or adoption. For others, it means giving birth to their talents, purpose, and projects. And for some, it may involve mothering their community and, most importantly, themselves.

This journey involves the discovery of your authentic version of motherhood and the unapologetic expression of it to the world.

Transformation takes the time it requires. You've experienced enough rushing towards a specific destination. It's your unique process and journey that deserves ample space and time, deserving of honour.

In my experience, some mothers have their Aha! Moments as early as the very first session, while others require more time as we patiently peel back the layers together. We meet you where you are in your journey. This is precisely why our coaching sessions begin with a minimum commitment of 3 months.